Vaginal Sex

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Good sex is a potpourri of different ingredients, all of which combine to make the act pleasurable and memorable.

Overall, intercourse is an intimate encounter.

Like other activities, intercourse demands a little bit of know-how and a lot of communication with your partner.

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  • Many women need prolonged direct clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm.
    • Sometimes this can pose a problem during intercourse. With a little creativity you can overcome this problem.
    • Choose positions that give you or your partner access to the clitoris.
    • Better still, use a hands-free vibrator to address your lady's needs.

Women, orgasms and intercourse
  • Some women have no problem reaching orgasm from simple vaginal penetration because the movement of the labia can provide some clitoral stimulation while the nerve endings inside the vagina are delicately engorged.
    • There are many women (some estimates would say as high as 60%) who for anatomical or psychological reasons can't reach orgasm from penetration alone.
    • This isn't because something's wrong!
      • Sexual intercourse alone doesn't treat the clitoris to direct stimulation, it almost ignores this important erogenous area altogether.
  • A woman who wants to become orgasmic has a variety of options to try.
  • One of the most useful and enjoyable is a well kept secret sometimes referred to as the T-position.
    • Begin by the female partner lying on her back.
    • The man, lying perpendicular (making a 't'), straddles the woman's leg farthest from him.
    • For example, if the man lies on the left side of the woman, he straddles her right leg.
    • The other leg lies atop the man.
  • This position exposes the clitoris for stimulation, which either partner can do. Use a water-based lubricant and tenderly massage the clitoris while slowly rocking back and forth, thrusting the penis gently in and out.
  • While this double stimulation is very gratifying, most important is how relaxing and intimate it is.

Sometimes it's difficult to provide the required stimulation manually so employ a vibrator.

Vibrators are designed to provide intense clitoral stimulation.

During intercourse, you may want something small and unobtrusive.

Couples find this method relaxing because they are able to lay down, neither partner having to hold his or her weight, and intimate because with a little adjustment you can talk, enjoy wine or just gaze into one another's eyes.

  • Being comfortable, relaxed, and stimulated properly is the key for some women to becoming orgasmic.

Women who would like a little extra stimulation can also try ID Pleasure, a high-market lubricant containing L-Arginine.
  • L-Arginine is a non-essential amino acid which, through clinical testing, has been shown to enhance sexual arousal in women.
  • When ID Pleasure is applied to the clitoris and vaginal walls for lubrication the L-Arginine will increase the blood flow to the region, heightening sensitivity.
  • Heightened sensitivity, in turn, naturally results in a greater responsiveness to sexual stimulation.

One of the added benefits to ID Pleasure is that it will also increase a man's blood flow, creating a stronger erection and increased stimulation.

To thrust or not to thrust

More thrusting does not necessarily mean more fun.

  • Many couples enjoy insertion and then a simple rocking back and forth.
  • This can be extremely satisfying because it allows both partners to relax with one another.

Other couples enjoy shallow thrusting because it provides a great deal of mutual stimulation.

Whatever you prefer, remember that the most sensitive nerve endings in the vagina are near the opening, and therefore constant stimulation of that area can be gratifying.

For the male, shallow penetration allows constant stimulation of the head of the penis and specifically the frenulum; which are both squeezed by the vaginal muscles located near the vaginal opening.

  • If you do not know what type of thrusting your partner likes you can exchange positions.
  • This is a way to mutually determine what sort of rhythm you will have during vaginal intercourse.
  • Thrusting is made more enjoyable with lubricant.
  • Sometimes a woman does not produce a sufficient amount of natural lubrication on her own, and lubrication on both the vagina and penis are helpful for better sex.
  • Prolonged sex can also deplete natural lubrication, and creams or oils can be applied at intervals along the way.

Naughty Pleasures is committed to providing you with the information to make your sexual encounters more fun and enjoyable.

Our belief; sexual health and sexual pleasure go hand in hand and as a health care professional, researching various sexual issues and working with and consulting other medical professionals, our hope is to encourage ‘you’ to talk more freely about sexual problems with your health care professionals.

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